Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

Four years ago, my friend and I got leadership jobs in the same international company. The work was interesting and paid well. Often, our immediate boss appointed my friend to lead us in departmental tasks. My friend didn’t like that and complained about the responsibilities she’d been given, though she received praise for her work.

Nevertheless, my friend continued to insist that she was unhappy with the work, and even went so far as to say that she thought her leadership was a fraud and would be noticed one day. She claimed that some of us were more qualified and therefore should be doing the work instead. One time, she actually asked our boss, point blank, to remove her from a leadership role, stating that she didn’t feel qualified to lead this particular team. That very move, acknowledging her weaknesses, made her a leader in many eyes, but she still didn’t see it.  She just wasn’t aware of her competent leadership and result-oriented management. 

For one particular task, my friend did endless research and spent hours coming up with strategies. On consecutive mornings, we would find her in the office, compiling presentations. That moment spurred me to do some research and learn more about her mindset. What was driving her to think this way? Maybe I could help her learn to feel more self-confident in her abilities.

What I found was fascinating! I stumbled upon a psychological problem known as “Imposter Syndrome.” I studied various types, as well as strategies on how to overcome it. Later, I shared all my results with my friend and she had a significant breakthrough, learning to own her abilities and putting them to good use which much less fear.The following post details the information found during my research. I believe that the post here will go a long way to helping you better understand Imposter Syndrome. Furthermore, you will understand how it appears in different personality types and will learn how to cope with it.

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Applied Cryptography in .NET and Azure Key Vault from Apress Now Available.

After a year of writing, reviewing and editing, I am pleased to announce that my first book for a traditional publisher, Applied Cryptography in .NET and Azure Key Vault has now been released. It has been an exciting journey writing for APress, and the experience was excellent. You sometimes hear bad stories of working with traditional publishers, but I am glad to say this wasn’t the case for me.

Applied Cryptography in .NET and Azure KeyVault

The journey for me started at NDC Oslo in 2017 where I was introduced an acquisition editor for APress. We got talking, and I suggested an idea for a book which I then formally pitched. After the pitch was accepted, I then signed the contract and agreed on a schedule for the first three chapters. To get a good start on the book, I decided to take a little writing holiday to Whitby where I could lock myself away near beautiful surroundings and make a start on drafting the first three chapters. I have always liked the idea of going on a short holiday to write, so this was helping to realize a small dream. I locked myself away for four days and managed to write the first draft for these chapters, and I was then joined by my wife and kids to spend a long weekend in Whitby. I submitted the three chapters to APress and waiting for them to be approved. Thankfully they were, and we agreed on a schedule to write the rest of the book.

I spent the majority of 2018 drafting the rest of the book and finished the first draft towards the end of October. If I was to work on the book full time, I really could have written it in two to three months, but because I have no idea how well the book will sell, or how much I can make from it, I decided to spread the work out while continuing to write courses for Pluralsight.

Once the first draft had been completed, the book was peer-reviewed; which involved an independent developer reading the book and checking it was accurate, made sense and the examples work. As each chapter was reviewed, I had to address any comments or concerns. I thought this part of the process would be difficult, but luckily I didn’t have to change much. Once peer review had finished the book went to be copy edited. At this point, I asked my friend Troy Hunt to write the foreward where he discusses data breaches. The book was officially finished at the end of January where it was then typeset and sent for printing.

Although I have self-published a lot of books, it has always been a dream to write a book for a traditional publisher, and now that dream has been realized. I have been asked several times if I will write another book like this. At the moment, I am not sure. I enjoyed the process, but I need to see how this book performs first. If it does well, then hopefully I can extend the book into a second edition. As for a new book, I have a few ideas, but I will wait until later in the year to decide.

The book is available from most online book retailers as well as traditional bookshops.

Apress.com

Amazon.com

Amazon.co.uk

Barnes and Nobel

Waterstones

Foyles

Pluralsight Blockchain Webinar

Earlier in the year I did a live Pluralsight webinar to about 700 people talking about what a Blockchain is? Why you would want to use one? The differences between a Blockchain and a Database and other interesting facts about the technology.

The recording of that Webinar is now available to watch on YouTube.

If you are interested in learning more about Blockchain from either a high level executive briefing standpoint or more as a software developer and architect, then I have the following courses available at Pluralsight.

State of Blockchain : Executive Briefing

Blockchain : Principles and Practices

New Courses at Puralsight

I have been very busy recently making new courses for Pluralsight and I am delighted to say I have just released two of them over the past week. The first course is called, Executive Briefing: State of Blockchain. This couse is a little different to the normal content on Pluralsight in that it is a short filmed course as opposed to screen casts and demos. 

The idea of this course is to teach information to tech leaders and C level execs quickly as they won’t normally have time to sit and watch long courses. My course is all about blockchain where I talk about what it is, why you would need it, potential use cases. I also run through a matrix of questions about whether a blockchai is suitable for your company and the key differences between a blockchain and a database.

This course was good fun to produce as I had to setup all the lighting and camera myself aswell as record good audio. This is much harder than you think with getting the lighting right to reduce glare from the computer screen and my glasses. I am really pleased with the results though.

Asynchronous Messaging with RabbitMQ and EasyNetQ

Accessing Rabbit MQ from .NET Core on the Apple Mac

The second course I have released this week is a more traditional Pluralsight course called, Asynchronous Messaging with RabbitMQ and EasyNetQ. This course is about the RabbitMQ messaging platform and how to use it with the EasyNetQ client library. The course is aimed at C# developers using .NET Core or the .NET Framework, and it will get them up and running and productive very quickly as it is very demo focused. 

This course works as a great companion to my other course, RabbitMQ by Example, which builds up the same sample application scenario but using the much more complicated RabbitMQ client library. If you want to compare the default client library to the EasyNetQ client library, then both courses will give you that information. If you just want to make your life easier and go straight to EasyNetQ, then this course contains everything you need. 

Flexispot E2B Sit / Stand Desk and Getting Healthier

Since I have been working for myself I have been trying to make sure I get more exercise by walking more. The problem though is that I then go to an office and sit down for 8 hours which is not good for you. To remedy this I decided to invest in an electric sit-stand desk so that I can make sure I stay more active during the day.

In this video, I talk about my new desk and the reasons for getting it.

If you are interested in the desk I got, then the details are here.

Flexispot E2B Sit / Standing Desk Frame

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Flexispot Standing Desk Top

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Flexispot Anti Fatigue Mat

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Ultra Small Mobile Writing Rig

For my job, I tend to travel a lot to conferences. When I am away I like to get as much work done as I can, but sometimes it isn’t really appropriate to get my laptop out, for example on a smaller airplane, train or in a restaurant; but in those times I like to get some work done like answering emails or drafting blog posts. To make these times more efficient, I have developed my little wiring rig that uses my phone, a copy of the Ulysses Writing App and the excellent Microsoft Universal Folding Keyboard which allows me to be productive, yet more discreet or in smaller spaces when traveling.

Mobile Writing Rig using the Ulysses Writing App and the Microsoft Universal Folding Keyboard.

The keyboard itself is very thin, even when folded which means it takes up hardly any space when packed in my laptop bag. It’s not the best typing experience as it takes a little getting used too, but it is indeed very workable. You can pair the keyboard with Windows, Android and Apple IOS devices which gives you a lot of flexibility. I pair it with an iPhone and an iPad. I don’t usually take the Apple Keyboard with me for the iPad when I travel as it makes the device quite thick in my bag, so I think this is a better solution for occasional typing; this setup has helped me remain productive when using a laptop isn’t easy to do.